I recently visited New York City for vacation. Whenever I’m in town, I always visit the places I used to frequent when I was a grad student on the Upper West Side. I have very fond memories of my brief time there, to say the least. What’s funny is that when I applied to college many years ago, I had completely ruled out New York City or really any city that felt intimidating to me. Maybe it was the fear of the unfamiliar or my sheltered suburban upbringing, but I really can’t recall why I didn’t consider certain colleges or parts of the country. Of course, I didn’t have the access to information that high school students have today, but I have to admit that much of my information was based on my own perceptions. And maybe I wouldn’t have been able to handle Gramercy Park, but I still occasionally think about what I missed out on. When I meet with students, the topic of “deal breakers” comes up all the time, so I’d like to address some of the recurring topics. It’s not my intention to change anyone’s mind, but maybe this is an opportunity to change your own perceptions in a way that I never did.